How many of you have things about yourself you hate? Are embarrassed about, wish you could change?
Have you ever thought about WHY you hate them? Chances are they are the very things people love about you.
I’ve spent countless years getting down on myself. I was too emotional, too impulsive, too dramatic, too something or other! It gets exhausting when you limit yourself in the effort to please other people and don’t realize that there are actually benefits to being the way you are.
Too emotional? I’d rather feel what I feel (and feel too much sometimes) than be a dry, void of a person.
Saw this quote and need to share: “Emotions are what make us human. Make us real. The word ’emotion’ stands for energy in motion. Be truthful about your emotions, and use your mind and emotions in your favor, not against yourself.”
Too impulsive? Because of this, I have many, MANY amazing memories and stories. Truly priceless, really. I could never be accused of being boring!
Too dramatic? That’s really in the eye of the beholder and, as I previously said, I’d rather be too much than not enough. Life is about PASSION, people. Drama comes with the territory if you are really living, know what I mean?
Too black and white (extremist)? This, I fall victim to. There are many situations I find myself feeling “in the middle” or “grey” on (politics, religion, etc) BUT when it comes to others, I go to extremes. I like this about myself. It means I have an opinion. It also means I know where I stand. And I usually do not waffle.
See? All good things come from what we perceive as being “bad” sometimes.
What do all of you struggle with?