Hey everyone!
This last Friday night, I was enjoying a cigarette and a long distance conversation with my best friend in California, out on my back patio.
I looked to my left, and there sat a ….dirty diaper.
Obviously, this was not mine as my daughter is 5 years old and has been potty-trained for almost 3 years now.
Maybe I should back up a little? I haven’t told any of you about my next door neighbors, have I? Well then.
Berlyn and I moved into our little condo in March of 2012. Everything started out great, as our neighbors on the other side of the fence had a little boy who is one year older than Berlyn. {They also have twin 2 year old girls.} It was so nice that Berlyn had a little playmate right next door and they could play together since I could easily see/hear them through our fence.
That didn’t last long.
Back in July, I bought them water balloons and showed them how to use the faucet outside to fill them. I went inside to use the restroom for 2 minutes and came out to find my kitchen/living room SOAKED in water, which included my brand new computer. Can you guess who did this? Definitely not my daughter. Berlyn also slipped on the wet tile and hit her head. Thank GOD she was okay and we didn’t have to make a trip to the hospital. And this little boy never even apologized. I was livid. After that, he was no longer allowed in my house.
He also likes to throw sand from his sandbox at my WINDOWS. And nearly every day she comes home in tears, saying he was mean to her or he didn’t want to play with her. Until the next day, that is and he is begging Berlyn to come over and play. I always give him the benefit of the doubt, and hope that Berlyn will make the decision herself if she wants to play with him or not. Every time this happens, I reinforce to Berlyn that she doesn’t have to be everyone’s friend. Lord knows, I learned this the hard way and I was an adult! Regardless, it’s a learning experience and I want Berlyn to make up her own mind.
One night last month, I walked outside to hear him giving Berlyn a hard time about her “picking one of his Mom’s flowers and so she couldn’t come over there anymore.” I blurted out, “Excuse me, do you remember when you trashed my house with water and sand? And Berlyn fell on the tile? Did I forbid you to play with my daughter? No…I didn’t. Knock it off.”
Ugh, I was furious.
So, back to the beginning of my story. The dirty diaper….
I am 99.9% sure I know who threw that thing into my yard. Along with about a bajillion other toys, objects, etc.
Naturally, I returned the items to them. In a box, in front of their gate to their house. With the diaper right on top.
You’re welcome!